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Why do language models engage with conversational distractors?

Explores why state-of-the-art LLMs struggle to maintain topical focus when users introduce off-topic turns, despite having explicit scope instructions. This gap suggests models lack training signals for ignoring irrelevant directions.

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CantTalkAboutThis identifies a specific gap in instruction-tuning datasets: they teach models to perform tasks but not to resist topical diversion. When task-oriented chatbots are given a system prompt defining their scope, and users introduce distractor turns that steer the conversation off-topic, even GPT-4-Turbo and Mixtral-Instruct engage with the distractors rather than maintaining focus.

The dataset is notably small (1080 synthetic dialogues) yet fine-tuning on it significantly improves topic resilience. This suggests the capability is easy to acquire — the gap is not in model capacity but in the absence of training signal. No existing instruction-tuning dataset explicitly teaches "ignore this."

The three-step generation process is instructive:

  1. Generate topic-following prompts across diverse scenarios
  2. Create dialogues adhering to topical instructions (dialogue inpainting)
  3. Integrate distractors to test topic following

A limitation is that synthetic distractors tend to be off-topic but simplistic. Real-world distractors may be more subtle — tangentially related topics, emotionally charged redirections, or Socratic questioning that appears on-topic but steers elsewhere.

This connects to the broader passivity/alignment problem. Since Does preference optimization harm conversational understanding?, RLHF trains models to be helpful in each response — and engaging with a user's distractor turn is locally helpful (it addresses what the user said). The globally correct behavior (maintaining topic focus) requires overriding the local helpfulness signal. Topic-following is another case where turn-level optimization conflicts with session-level goals.

The distinction between following instructions about what TO DO vs. what NOT TO DO is underexplored. Models are good at "act as a customer service agent" but poor at "do not discuss topics outside this scope." Negative constraints may require different training signals than positive instructions.

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topic-following is a crucial yet overlooked instruction-tuning gap — even SOTA LLMs engage with distractors when they should maintain focus